my dear wife

yesterday, i must have reached the limit of my patience so much so that my frustration and anger at the rejection of my application for funding from the sme bank boiled over into anger at my other half. various nasty thoughts crossed my mind. i now understand how some people can reach the limit and then breached the dividing wall and proceeded to exterminate their partners. the most important thing in any relationship must surely be the ability to maintain a running dialogue, that way both parties would have a sense that they are on the same train albeit heading in one direction. when dialogue becomes elusive, that feeling of togetherness vaporises, conflict sets-in actuated by the isolation of 1 party resulting in mayhem, separation, divorce unnecessary court action, i.e. symptoms of all the world's problems, obama is right, when he says that dialogue is the key to resolution of conflicts.why is it that some parties shy away from dialogue???, is it lack of confidence, fear or stupidity???